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The Let's Talk Relationships Podcast
Let’s be real, dating in today’s world can be exciting, confusing, and, at times, downright discouraging. Navigating the complexities of modern relationships often leaves us wondering where to turn for guidance and clarity. That’s why this podcast is here, to cut through the chaos and explore what it truly takes to build and sustain healthy, fulfilling relationships.
You’ll hear real, honest conversations from everyday people working through real relationship stuff, to experts who bring insight into the patterns that shape how we love. We’ll talk about the messy parts like vulnerability, communication breakdowns, attachment wounds, and all the growth that comes with doing the inner work.
Because when we understand ourselves better, we show up better. And that’s what this space is all about: helping you approach relationships with more clarity, self-trust, and intention.
Interested in being a guest? Email me at: beatrice@theltrpodcast.com
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The Let's Talk Relationships Podcast
EP 42: Men, Identity, and the Fear of Losing Yourself in Relationship with Bryan Reeves
Today’s episode is a really special one for me. Bryan Reeves is someone whose work impacted me long before I had a podcast, long before I was coaching, and during a season when I really needed it. I read Choose Her Every Day or Leave Her while going through a breakup, and it was one of those books that didn’t just validate my experience, it gave language to needs I didn’t yet know how to name. It helped me understand what I was actually longing for in partnership and what I would never again be willing to minimize or explain away.
Getting to sit down with Bryan for this conversation felt incredibly full circle. We went deep into what it really takes to create an exceptional relationship, not the polished version, but the real one. The kind that asks something of you. The kind that requires humility, accountability, and a willingness to let parts of yourself fall away so something more grounded can emerge. We talked about growth, the discomfort that comes with it, and the very real grief that shows up when we outgrow old patterns, identities, and ways of relating.
This conversation is honest, grounded, and deeply human. If you’re navigating relationships, healing from a breakup, or questioning what true partnership actually requires of you, this episode is for you. I’m so honored to share it with you, and I can’t wait for you to listen.
About Bryan Reeves:
Bryan Reeves is a former U.S. Air Force Captain turned relationship coach, author, and speaker whose work focuses on emotional maturity, conscious partnership, and what it actually takes to build a deeply fulfilling relationship. After navigating his own heartbreak and relational blind spots, Bryan realized that intimacy is not something we magically know how to do. It is something we learn through self awareness, humility, and lived experience.
He is the author of Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her), a book that has resonated with thousands of readers by naming the often unspoken work required to sustain real partnership. His writing explores commitment, accountability, masculine growth, and the courage it takes to stay emotionally present rather than checking out when things get hard. Bryan’s work has been read by millions worldwide and featured on platforms like The Good Men Project, Elephant Journal, and Thought Catalog.
Through his writing, coaching, and speaking, Bryan invites people to take radical responsibility for how they show up in love. His approach is honest, compassionate, and deeply human, offering a grounded path toward relationships that are not just lasting, but truly alive.
Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_
Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/
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