Let's Talk Relationships

EP 25: Why Nice Guys Finish Last with Coach Merianne Drew

Beatrice Rosu Season 2 Episode 25

In this episode of Let's Talk Relationships, I’m chatting with relationship and wellness coach Marianne Drew about the 'Nice Guy Syndrome'—that belief that 'nice guys finish last.' We dig into what’s really behind this mindset, inspired by Dr. Robert Glover’s book No More Mr. Nice Guy, and talk about the signs, root causes, and how to shift from being a 'Nice Guy' to someone with healthy, balanced relationships. Marianne shares powerful insights on emotional intelligence, setting boundaries, and why self-care is just as important as caring for your partner. Whether you’re navigating this yourself or trying to understand it better, this episode is packed with real, relatable advice to help you build stronger, more authentic connections.

About Merianne Drew
Merianne Drew is a relationship wellness coach who transforms lives by addressing the deep connection between emotional well-being and physical health. Starting as a wellness coach, she was inspired to help others navigate the rising tide of illness driven by the food and medical industries. Over time, she realized mindset and beliefs were the true barriers to change, leading her to rebrand as a life coach in 2019. A personal journey through chronic illness and relational healing revealed the powerful link between relationships and health, a discovery that now drives her coaching. Today, Merianne helps clients align their values, reduce stress, and foster healthier relationships for greater overall well-being and prosperity.

https://www.meriannedrew.com/
merianne@meriannedrew.com



00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:26 Discovering 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'

01:34 Introducing Marianne Drew

02:40 Marianne's Journey to Relationship Coaching

05:02 The Connection Between Mental and Physical Health

07:00 Understanding Nice Guy Syndrome

09:39 Origins of Nice Guy Syndrome

15:48 The Impact of Nice Guy Syndrome on Relationships

20:10 Covert Contracts and Manipulation

25:28 Solutions to Nice Guy Syndrome

29:51 Challenging Negative Stereotypes About Men

30:17 Taking Responsibility and Building Healthy Relationships

30:38 The Importance of Setting Boundaries

32:27 Understanding and Expressing Emotions

33:27 The Role of Masculinity in Relationships

40:51 The Impact of Polarity on Attraction

42:50 The Journey to Emotional Integration

45:13 The Importance of Self-Care for Men

49:59 Healing Through Relationships

55:02 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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