In this heartfelt episode of 'Let's Talk Relationships,' I sit down with the insightful Matthew Poole, who candidly shares his transformative journey, starting from his weight loss to the lessons learned from his marriage, divorce, and current dating experiences. Matthew underscores the significance of vulnerability and self-growth in nurturing meaningful connections. He delves into the complexities of love, unpacks his personal insecurities, and reflects on the consequences of not addressing inner struggles before and during his marriage. Matthew opens up about the hurdles of post-divorce dating, particularly in finding a partner who shares his commitment to growth and faith. Throughout our conversation, we emphasize the necessity of effort in relationships, the pivotal role of therapy, and the power of introspection in fostering personal healing. Join us for insightful reflections and valuable lessons on self-improvement and cultivating fulfilling relationships.
About Matthew Pool:
Matthew Pool, a native Texan and graduate of Dallas Baptist University, is a construction sales consultant and athlete with a heart for community service. He's deeply involved in Austin organizations like Hope for the Hungry and Operation Liberty Hill, showcasing his commitment to the last, the lost, the least, and the lonely. Matthew's transformative journey from over 300 pounds in 2016 to under 185 pounds in 2024 reflects his resilience and dedication to personal growth. As a driven leader, he empowers others through relational leadership, recognizing the value of every individual in both business and community endeavors.
00:00 Introduction and Guest Arrival
01:11 Getting to Know Matthew Poole
02:18 Matthew's Personal Journey and Transformation
02:58 Diving into Relationship Discussions
03:12 Matthew's Past Relationship and Lessons Learned
03:42 The Impact of Personal Trauma on Relationships
04:09 The Breakdown of Matthew's Marriage
05:44 Reflections on Relationship Failures and Growth
07:24 The Role of Pride and Culture in Relationships
08:10 The Importance of Effort and Commitment in Relationships
11:51 The Struggles of Balancing Personal and Relationship Needs
12:26 The Impact of Unresolved Personal Issues on Relationships
13:06 The Importance of Prioritizing Relationships
15:46 The Challenges Men Face in Relationships
17:44 The Role of Fatherlessness and Culture in Men's Relationship Struggles
20:52 The Need for Open Communication and Support in Relationships
28:14 The Struggles of Communication in Relationships
28:32 The Importance of Deep and Meaningful Connections
28:54 The Role of Men in Society and Relationships
29:22 The Impact of Cultural Norms and Expectations
29:49 The Misalignment of Values and Actions
31:15 The Misconceptions and Realities of Marriage
33:00 The Dangers of Pornography in Relationships
34:30 The Importance of Self-Reflection and Growth
35:03 The Impact of Busyness on Relationships
35:34 The Importance of Intentionality in Singleness
36:29 The Importance of Self-Work in Relationships
43:07 The Importance of Knowing, Caring, and Serving in Relationships
43:18 The Importance of Therapy and Strong Friendships
45:31 The Challenges of Dating After Growth
45:50 The Struggles of Dating as a Mature Christian
46:48 The Importance of Being Open and Honest in Dating
51:54 The Importance of Learning from Past Relationships
Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_
Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/
In this heartfelt episode of 'Let's Talk Relationships,' I sit down with the insightful Matthew Poole, who candidly shares his transformative journey, starting from his weight loss to the lessons learned from his marriage, divorce, and current dating experiences. Matthew underscores the significance of vulnerability and self-growth in nurturing meaningful connections. He delves into the complexities of love, unpacks his personal insecurities, and reflects on the consequences of not addressing inner struggles before and during his marriage. Matthew opens up about the hurdles of post-divorce dating, particularly in finding a partner who shares his commitment to growth and faith. Throughout our conversation, we emphasize the necessity of effort in relationships, the pivotal role of therapy, and the power of introspection in fostering personal healing. Join us for insightful reflections and valuable lessons on self-improvement and cultivating fulfilling relationships.
About Matthew Pool:
Matthew Pool, a native Texan and graduate of Dallas Baptist University, is a construction sales consultant and athlete with a heart for community service. He's deeply involved in Austin organizations like Hope for the Hungry and Operation Liberty Hill, showcasing his commitment to the last, the lost, the least, and the lonely. Matthew's transformative journey from over 300 pounds in 2016 to under 185 pounds in 2024 reflects his resilience and dedication to personal growth. As a driven leader, he empowers others through relational leadership, recognizing the value of every individual in both business and community endeavors.
00:00 Introduction and Guest Arrival
01:11 Getting to Know Matthew Poole
02:18 Matthew's Personal Journey and Transformation
02:58 Diving into Relationship Discussions
03:12 Matthew's Past Relationship and Lessons Learned
03:42 The Impact of Personal Trauma on Relationships
04:09 The Breakdown of Matthew's Marriage
05:44 Reflections on Relationship Failures and Growth
07:24 The Role of Pride and Culture in Relationships
08:10 The Importance of Effort and Commitment in Relationships
11:51 The Struggles of Balancing Personal and Relationship Needs
12:26 The Impact of Unresolved Personal Issues on Relationships
13:06 The Importance of Prioritizing Relationships
15:46 The Challenges Men Face in Relationships
17:44 The Role of Fatherlessness and Culture in Men's Relationship Struggles
20:52 The Need for Open Communication and Support in Relationships
28:14 The Struggles of Communication in Relationships
28:32 The Importance of Deep and Meaningful Connections
28:54 The Role of Men in Society and Relationships
29:22 The Impact of Cultural Norms and Expectations
29:49 The Misalignment of Values and Actions
31:15 The Misconceptions and Realities of Marriage
33:00 The Dangers of Pornography in Relationships
34:30 The Importance of Self-Reflection and Growth
35:03 The Impact of Busyness on Relationships
35:34 The Importance of Intentionality in Singleness
36:29 The Importance of Self-Work in Relationships
43:07 The Importance of Knowing, Caring, and Serving in Relationships
43:18 The Importance of Therapy and Strong Friendships
45:31 The Challenges of Dating After Growth
45:50 The Struggles of Dating as a Mature Christian
46:48 The Importance of Being Open and Honest in Dating
51:54 The Importance of Learning from Past Relationships
Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_
Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/